Develop Your Social Skills & Build Attraction using SDF

Getting Your Fundamentals down its important in the following post I am going to give you a brief introduction on how you can develop Your Social Skills & Build Attraction using our top secret SDF system.

Introduction to Sexual, Dominant and Playful

Going out has over time changed my life. My social skills which where horrible have gradually improved over time. There was a point in my life before I used to go out consistently where I had no friend and I was socially awkward.  I would typically stay at home during my weekends spending my free time reading books, doing math, and coding for fun. I had no connection to the outside world let alone girls. Eventually I forced myself to go out make friends and improve on my social skills in order to get girls and awesome friends.

I’m a geek I admit it. Learning this skill hasn’t removed my geekness it only shifted to focus on social dynamics and building an awesome life style with cool people and hot girls around me. I used to talk in terms of computers, things like Kiss which stands for keep it simple stupid is used widely in computer science, kind of stuck with me. So it was only logical to use and develop my own terminology for going out and dancing on the dance floor.

This brings me to the introduction of one of my greatest breakthroughs. Something I and my friends call SDF. SDF stands for Sexual, Dominant, and Funny. And it is a guild line of sort for us to use when we interact with girls if it’s on the dance floor or outside of it. It lets us build attraction with girls and with the addition of comfort to the equations we are able to get girls numbers and build a connection with them that lasts.

What is Sexual Dominant and Playful?

SPD is the general guideline I and my friends us when going out to build attraction when we interact with girls on the dance floor. Using it then lets us get away with crazy things while also enabling a comfortable and healthy relationship develop between me and the girl without coming off needy while avoiding the friends zone.

Let’s dive into more detail into the three components that make up SDF.

Sexual

Dancing is already sexual but you can amp it up even more by either using a sexual frame when talking or by the way you dance and touch the girl as you both dance.

Here are a few dance moves that will make the interaction sexual.

• When dancing front to front and grinding, put your leg in between hers and as you grind push your leg up on her crotch. This will stimulate her and get her turned on.

• Grinding behind her, spank her ass – make sure and gauge if she is acceptable in ass spanking.

• Putting your hand in between her thighs as you are both grinding will make it more sexual. Make sure you do not go too high unless you know how far to take it – or calibrate it.

Dominant

Being dominant is attractive and is crucial for the dance floor. It means that you take control of a situation. When something comes up into question you are the one who decides what to do. For example if you want to go and sit down at the bar you are the one that would suggest the place to sit.

Dominance is knowing what you want and actually doing it.

Playful

Being playful is not only about being humorous, but it’s also about releasing and stopping what you are doing.

For example, I may be spanking a girls ass, but let’s say I do it too much in a short amount of time she will get offended. If I do it throughout the night once in a while it is playful because I know when to stop and release.

It’s basically two steps forward and one step backwards.

For more in depth how to guide real world proven infield examples checkout our up coming book Secrets of Club Dance.